Wednesday, September 17, 2014


Apologize or sit down, Kanye West.

There's been lots of drama and words exchanged surrounding Kanye West's recent wheelchair/concert snafu, for which he refuses to apologize.  

I'm not going to explain it all here. You can google and find the story and videos.

But every so often, I gotta put on my activist hat and run my mouth, too, and honor my son's life.

As a mom that parented a child that needed to use a wheelchair until his sudden death in 2003 at age 12, here's my short response to the on-going drama about West demanding that people in wheelchairs at his concert stand up, and then refusing to apologize for any perceived insensitivity.

Through my son, I experienced firsthand the challenges of wheelchair use and disability, tough moments made more difficult by the lack of understanding and harsh judgement of others.

With self-absorbed, feisty words, Kanye West appears clueless to the idea that someone with such needs moves among us, much less would be at one of his concerts or listen to his music. 

He's not alone in that lack of awareness or sensitivity. West just has more people closely watching him.

Fact is, there's an invisible population that still exists among us, those with disabilities, including those requiring wheelchairs to get around.

We need to change that. The Kanye uproar offers us another opportunity to try. 

Teachable moment? 

Like Martin Luther, King, Jr., I have a dream that such needed change will be fully realized one day. 

But like the rough struggles faced by other minorities working to realize true equality, that's no easy dream.

As an author, speaker and activist on special needs issues, I try to do my part to spark change.

Including here. Today. Right now.

For what it's worth, here's my suggestion for Kanye and his devoted Queen of Selfies, Kim Kardashian West.

Why not take a selfie with and spend the day with people that must use wheelchairs to get around from Point A to Point B to live life more independently, and post that. 

Take the focus off of and educate yourselves.

Bring the stalkarazzi with you.

Maybe you'll create some valuable press and worthwhile awareness for the incredible challenges facing those that use wheelchairs, as well as for millions of others that have special needs.

Not an easy existence.

That selfie would be a first, and maybe even a humbling shot at that. 

Possible?

If you can't offer up an apology for your insensitive, clueless "stand-up!" commands and on-going rants, someone needs to ask you to "sit down."

I'll do it. I'm pretty sure you won't care, but I do.

Please sit down, Kanye West. We already know you can stand up, the gift of easy physical abilities and clear speech being what they are and all.

But thank you for fueling valuable and timely worldwide discussion about those with special needs, including wheelchair use.

That creates change.

Did you know people with disabilities represent some of the most discriminated against folks on the face of the planet, even though we shamelessly exclude them whenever discussing human rights violations and discrimination?

Did you know they and their families must fight daily to ensure many basic rights that you and I take for granted, with neither the money nor public platforms required to speak out effectively against those injustices to have their stories heard?

Did you know those with special needs are constantly and often harshly judged each and every single day of their lives because of deep-seated, outdated stereotypes perpetuated by the public about disability?

Did you know they're often deemed imperfect, worthless human beings, and targeted for cruel, demeaning jokes, daily bullying, and rude comments by too many clueless, able-bodied people, including entertainers?

I share these realities with you just in case you thought it was easy being in that wheelchair, getting to that concert and still standing out while sitting down.

It's anything but.

It takes guts.

With the world's attention upon you once again, and having had your spirited say, you could choose now to add intelligent talk to the positive awareness and respect those with disabilties need and deserve.

Some food for thought; if you're willing to feast.

Are you?

Then stand up and be heard for all the right reasons, apologize and stop the firestorm.

Two simple, powerful words.

I'm sorry.

It's the right thing to do. The classy thing to do. The human thing to do.


Consider it a vote for true equality for all.

And don't forget to share that wheelchair selfie with the world.

Can't wait to see it.


Monday, July 28, 2014

Happy 46th Anniversary, Special Olympics!!


Photo courtesy of Special Olympics. Used with permission.


Did you know that it has been 46 years since Special Olympics played its first games in the backyard of Eunice Kennedy Shriver's home?

It's true

Special Olympics has since grown into a special needs giant, changing the lives of millions of individuals with intellectual disabilities worldwide, and those of their families, by giving those with exceptionalities the chance to compete in sporting activities, too.

Huge kudos to everyone that has made this wonderful organization the success it is today, especially its talented atheletes.

Special thanks to the remarkable Eunice Kennedy Shriver. She remains one of my heroes.

Focused on ability.

"You are the stars and the world is watching you."

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Weekly Faces of Ability-RicStar's Camp

Making music at RicStar's Camp 2014 The lovely Rose.









The beautiful Rose.

Her name suits her perfectly.







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RicStar's Camp Version of Pharrell Williams HAPPY!
Judy Winter Image. RicStar's Camp.


Simple advocacy request, folks! 

Just 90 more YouTube views and we will have met our immediate, short-term goal of 1,000 views of the Eric 'RicStar' Winter Music Therapy Camp version of Pharrell Williams crazy popular song HAPPY! The video was filmed at RicStar's Camp 14th annual summer camp this past June.

Help us show the world what those with exceptionalities CAN do, while changing the faces of disability. A quick advocacy click will make us all HAPPY and just a little more aware. Please share, too! 

We've got this!!

Thanks in advance!!

Click here to watch the video.  

Great way to shake up Monday.



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Keeping up with Amy Purdy and Oprah--a Match Made in Media/Special Needs Advocacy Heaven

The beautiful, multi-talented and gutsy Amy Purdy has announced that she will be part of Oprah's "Life You Want" event this fall.

Leave it to Oprah to quickly scoop up another winning personality to share the spotlight with.

Leave it to Amy Purdy to make gold out of whatever she touches.

Kudos all around.

Focused on ability.

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HAPPY 24TH BIRTHDAY, ADA!


Celebrating freedom and music at RicStar's Camp. Judy Winter Image.

Did you know that the American's with Disabilities Act (ADA) was signed into law on July 26th, 1990?

Here's a message from the President and additional information about this ground-breaking law so you can educate yourself further.


Yes, you should know.


As the President said, the work isn't yet finished.


Equal access. Equal opportunity. For all.


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RAISE YOUR ADVOCACY VOICES, PEOPLE, FOR RATIFICATION OF THE DISABILITY TREATY!




The Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (CRPD), also known as the Disability Treaty, is designed to protect and ensure equal rights for those with exceptionalities throughout the world.

So far, 147 countries have ratified this important work. 

The United States has not yet done so.

Please, educate yourselves, put on your advocacy hats, raise your voices loudly, and call on the U.S. Senate to ratify this treaty before they take a break in August.

Here's a link from the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation that tells you how to do just that.

Be part of important change. Don't just benefit from the bold actions of others.

This is something we can ALL do, and should.


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Thursday, July 03, 2014

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY, AMERICA!




Cinderella's Castle. Disney World Nov. 2013. Judy Winter Image. All rights reserved.

Happy 4th of July, everyone!!

Gotta love a country that's home to Mickey Mouse and Disney World!

Freedom rocks.

What does it mean to you and your family?




Monday, June 23, 2014


All photos by Judy Winter 2014



Eric 'RicStar Winter Music Therapy Camp 
(aka RicStar's Camp)Version of 

Pharrell Williams' HAPPY Song


Here's our version of Pharrell Williams' popular and catchy HAPPY song, featuring the campers, staff and volunteers of the 12th annual Eric 'RicStar' Winter Music Therapy Camp, named in honor of my son, Eric. 

He had a remarkable gift for music and passed away too soon at age 12 in 2003. RicStar's Camp honors Eric's legacy and love for music.

Please share this video with all you know and help us create greater awareness of the beautiful, diverse faces of exceptionalities and the power of music and RicStar's Camp (a community jewel) to change lives.

We focus on celebrating abilities by letting campers show us what they CAN do. 

Campers never disappoint.

No one is turned away because of disability or financial need.

Thanks to Jon Whiting and Steve Boughton of MSU for their outstanding professional work showcasing what we do each summer.

Making life better for this population through our remarkable camp makes me soooo HAPPY!!

So does this video. I know Eric is smiling.

Yeah. It's that good. :)

See for yourself here.



Wednesday, June 18, 2014










Reminder: Find me on Facebook!

My professional Facebook page 'Breakthrough Parenting for Children with Special Needs' (same name as my book), now includes much more frequent updates than this blog currently does. 
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Did You Know?

The multi-talented journalist, Lisa Ling, has been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD).

Check out the story here.



Certified Therapy Dog and School Dog, Jack, taking a well-deserved bow. Pure canine magic.








My TEDx TALK

In case you missed my TEDx talk, "Schooled by a Dog," here's the YouTube link.

My battle cry: Certified Therapy Dogs in Every Classroom in the Nation!!!


Here's one of my many special needs interviews, this one close to home.  
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Minute Vacation

Escape for a little while.

Breathe out.

One mom voices her admiration for Special Olympics

Make that one mom with TWO kids with Down syndrome that found in SO a place to just be a "typical" family.

Isn't that what we all want?

Read it here.


Keeping up with Eric LeGrand

Read the update here.




AAPD

Good Weekly Resource on Facebook

Redefine Disability.

More here.
Wheels

Extreme 22-year-old athlete with spina bifida, Aaron Fotheringham, takes on skate-board parks and wins impressively.

Don't tell him what he can't do, and don't say he's "confined" to a wheelchair, either.

Check it out here.

Focused on ability.




Hear Yee!! 2014 Call for Entries

The Kennedy Center VSA annual juried competition.

Find out more here.






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Weekly Words of Wisdom: Maya Angelou.

"All great achievements require time."

Be patient.

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

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Kudos to Meryl Davis and Amy Purdy-Dancing with the Stars 2014!

Meryl Davis (has dyslexia) and Amy Purdy (double amputee) took first and second place last night on the finale of Dancing with the Stars.

Both women have worked incredibly hard to overcome some big challenges and achieve impressive success. Both are mucho talented, beautiful and gracious, and Amy just made ground-breaking history.

I've been doing this special-needs-advocacy work a long, long time. I began at a time when few if any even people talked about the potential of this population, much less looked beyond disability to showcase individual talents.

This is a big deal.

Today, my special needs advocacy heart is overflowing.

Two remarkable women. Two Olympic champions. Two great dancers. Two stellar role models for young women everywhere. No tables thrown. No fighting. No profanity. No embarrassment.

Just class and talent and dignity and ability showcased in all its glory on live television. 

Long overdue.

There is no runner-up status here. Both women were/are spectacular.

The ladie's partners were pretty darn sweet, too. 


Special shout out to Derek Hough. The way he approached this unfamiliar special-needs situation showed rare class, professionalism and total commitment to learning something brand new and out of his comfort zone.

I love that he didn't handle Amy with disability kid gloves or turn her into a DWTS mascot.

He looked beyond the obvious to challenge this incredibly talented and spirited young Paralympian, helping her achieve her full dancing potential, and then some.

Paid off in dancing spades.

Hough was willing to take a chance on himself, too. And let's not forget his incredible talent as a choreographer/dancer.

I've no doubt Derek Hough is a better person today because of this remarkable experience.

We all are.

Best season of Dancing with the Stars, ever!!

Thank you for the thrill ride and the media-worthy example. This was about so much more than grabbing a glittery trophy.

Pure class, and focused on ability.

Bravo!






Tuesday, May 20, 2014


DID YOU KNOW?

Olympic Ice-Dancing Gold Medalist and big contender for the Mirabel on Dancing with the Stars tonight Meryl Davis is dyslexic.